What a coincidence to find your post!
I’m very much at the same point as you.
For the first time in my life I’m accepting myself and this opened me a way to understand others better and accept them as they are. Taking with humor things from other that in the past used to bother me. I feel as a more compassionate person.

I understood, I don’t know if you agree, that when there’s a certain behaviour or an attitude from another person that bothers or upsets us, it’s a sign that something inside us is not very well.
In other words, it has to do more with ourselves than with the other person.