I understand your mum’s need but I also understand your dad. It’s how he is. It’s a matter of personality. Noone can change another person. But, at the same time I understand your mum’s needs.

The thing here is a matter of choice. I mean, up to which point is your mum ready to accept or coexist with somebody who cannot provide her with what she needs.

My mum and dad were totally incompatible and I tell you from my very heart that I would wish both had found other partners of life. It would have been better for all of us, to be honest. And for them both, in the first place.

There’s a mistake we tend to make and is to expect from others what we want or need. It’s a waste of time. And it’s also a way to take the responsibility out of you and put it in others.

I’m glad your mum is going to a therapist. I’m not implying that it’s her fault or anything close to it. I’m glad because she can progress on her self-knowledge and be happier. And have all the information to make her own choices, whichever they may be.

You sound very wise in your knowledge of how to interpret things. I congratulate you. No f@cking matters how much disabilities you may have. That doesn’t mind a f@cking thing. What matters is your clear mind and your ability to be compassionate.
Thank you for your thread.