I've been away from the boards for a while. I'm glad you got some closure with your ex-T! Even then, actually moving on might be hard, but at least you have a solid foundation. Interesting that you seem to be leaning towards the T that is less similar to ex-T, but I guess it makes sense. It'd be more reassuring if she were willing to work out a more flexible between-session support system, though. I like the solution LT's T came up with, very sensible.