Wish I had some good advice but sadly I am the last person on earth to offer relationship advice.

My experience is that it takes a lot time to get to know someone well enough for each person to gauge whether the relationship is going to be worth it.

Its like there is kind of an early honeymoon phase and when that wears off, sometimes a disillusionment can set in. If things are pretty solid, the relationship can survive this disillusionment phase. But it sort of seems like it has been pretty solid for each person.

It is almost as if in the early part of the relationship two people can only see the good in the other person. And then reality shows its face and each person starts to see the limitations of the other person and begins to question everything. Maybe I'm wrong. I'm often wrong about things.

I hope things work out for you. You are a nice person!