Hey L. I just kinda used you if that's the right word to get me through a very rough call with a member at work. She began screaming at me almost immediately, loudly and speaking VERY fast, without taking a breath, not allowing me to speak... I mentally/emotionally grasped onto our connection as fast as I could to remain calm and not get pulled into her drama, then further pictured myself as you always look, sitting over there in your chair all serene even when I used to be freaking out a mile a minute on the couch across from you. It helped a lot. We got through the call and I was able to do everything she needed done. She'd calmed down a LOT by the time we hung up.