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Old Nov 03, 2021, 06:01 AM
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Originally Posted by cinnamonsun View Post
Seems like this is all I can do. I'll keep doing that. I hope one day people will know or realize the truth. I sincerely haven't spread anything or trashed her. People ask me about her and I simply say that we parted ways and that's all I am willing to comment about her. I'm certainly not going out of my way to make her unhappy or miserable. I just want to stay in my lane and move on with my life.
Yes - it's all you can do. And if these people don't see the truth, well, that's a shame because this person wreaked havoc in your life and made you very unwell.

It's great that you're not speaking ill of her - that speaks volumes about the high calibre of person you are.

Best to simply distance yourself from all the toxic negativity as best as you can, live your life as best as you can, and move forwards and onwards to a far happier existence. Your happiness and well being are very important - taking care of that is paramount. If you do that, you will be just fine.

So smile and enjoy your life again, without her in it. And tra la la - off you skip into the sunshine with a far happier mentality and peace of mind! lol.

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