After 10 years in an abusive marriage I found out my ex husband was having an affair for at least 3 years. I ended the relationship but it caused a whole string of issues for me that I was unprepared for. My ex husband walked away baring as little responsibility as possible and is now on his 4th girlfriend. Then the pandemic hit complicating matters…I think I need help getting past my anger. He did so much to me and turned out to be a total liar. He takes no responsibility for anything and has just moved on so that’s what I need to do but I feel stuck. Why can’t I get past it?