I really love this too! And it's where I am at as well. You could say I used to be the doorknob that gave everyone a turn. Until I learned more about self-respect and self-worth. It's been over a month now since the last relationship disaster and I'm loving being single. I remember how I changed my sleep schedule for her, I'd stay up to 5 am sometimes because she was awake all night. And now my sleep routine is a lot healthier. I get to actually have time for myself and not be yelled at or made to feel guilt or shame for it. I was hired as a photographer, a dream come true! I posted a poem in a FB group and it received 57 likes and was reposted. I have more energy and feel more alive than I have in a year. I'm smiling again. It's great being a hard-working, independent person. I used to pour all my love into toxic and abusive friends and partners, now I pour it into myself and I'm starting to blossom. It's AMAZING to see this in you too and I am so happy for you! I wish you so much luck and success and happiness with everything you are pursuing and working on.