Kids are strange... Us older folks never understand them :-) Of course, same thing for us when we were kids, right?

You guys are 20 or so in age? That's a tough time in terms of trying to find your personality. Lots of times, social skills are not great. You mentioned you go to raves and he doesn't do a good job of socializing you. In some ways, raves (I think) are somewhere to "escape". What about non-rave situations in which you have just people around? How does that go? I'd say you have a lot to look forward to in life. Enjoy what you have but it's not the end-all definition of your life. If you need more - ask for it from him. If he can't deliver, you need to make your own decisions of how you will want your life to go. Just my opionion, but you really need to almost develop a "business plan" for your life - what you want, when you want to get it and how you'll go about getting it. If he isn't meeting your needs - you need to treat yourself right and keep on looking. You may look for a number of years but you will find love, great social situations and happiness. It may not be from what you have now - who knows.

Remember - 6.6+ billion people on this planet. The world is huge - much bigger than your neighborhood.