Hopefully your husband will get over it. I don't see how he can be disappointed. Doesn't sound like he put much into it, "Gee, MBK shouldn't ever give food or anything to the guy upstairs" probably didn't enter his thought processes? Knee-jerk reaction. Maybe he was jealous; you're only supposed to be taking care of him to his way of thinking, he's making money for the food and here you are taking care of another guy.