Well not so wise star but certainly trying to pay attention...

I notice that you like horses...If you were having a wonderfull ride with another rider and you were having a blast with loose rein and a powerfull but considerate animal...

Your partner was struggling,,tight rein,,teeth showing,, and confused gait.

How do you give them what you are experiencing...?

The most you can possibly accomplish is suggest they to do what your doing...Let go and let God,,,and the horse too...

That is all you can do for Mark...and love him in spite of himself...

I'm sorry...and don't shop till you drop....

Lenny