I feel like I'm always going out of my way for people all the time, and than I end up being taken for granted. The feeling is awful. So I'm trying not to do so much for people, but the thing is I'm such a caring and loving person. Sometimes I get told I am selfish because I won't help them or they end up getting sad because I am speaking my feelings to them. "Oh I guess I'm just a useless friend than." I feel like this a manipulation tactic, but I can't be sure. I'm always going out of my way for people who simply take me for granted and only come to me whenever they need me, but when I need them, their not there for me. So I'm trying to not go out of my way for people all the time anymore. Is this wrong of me? I'm hurting pretty badly right now because it seems like everything I do, I end up failing or the person gets upset when I speak my feelings towards them. I'm just tired of being walked over, because it makes me feel useless in the end.