mybestkids2, I think you done good. If it were me, I would probably buy a sack of dog chow for his dog the next time I went to the grocery store.

I think the problem is not what you did but the fact that your H seems to want to control what you think and do. You have a different view than he does on this-- why should he get so bent out of shape because you are not his clone? I've been there, done that, I never really understood why my own H would get so pissed off when I had different opinions and views than he did. I hope your H can get over that and I hope you won't spend time worrying about how disappointed he is with you. I think you are the one who should be disappointed with him! (Not for having a different view from you, but for his not wanting you to think for yourself.) JMO