> what did I do to make her be so insensitive?
Nothing. It sounds to me as though she does not want to face it, and avoids that pain by attacking you, as the one that brings the pain to her attention. It is not an unusual reaction -- and it is not your fault.
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Now if thou would'st
When all have given him o'er
From death to life
Thou might'st him yet recover
-- Michael Drayton 1562 - 1631
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