OK, I heard back from one of the child psychiatry centers in my area that had been recommended both by Dr. T and my D's former school psychologist. We now have two appointments (one parents only, the other with D) with one of their child psychiatrists in early December. He has 20 years of experience, and ADHD and autism are two of his specialty areas. So hoping he will be able to help her. And I like that they do a parent-only session as part of the intake, too (we're doing that one telehealth, the other in person).