Ah... thank you Una, maybe that's what she's saying. Are you in or are you out. Like maybe what it looks like to her, by going monthly, I'm playing some one foot in, one foot out game (is that what I'm doing?! Although to be fair she was the one who said awhile back that most people at some point start reducing the frequency of sessions) and need to woman up and just decide that I want to be out and DO IT and then ABIDE BY IT and not go back. Most of me does, want to be out. There's a small part of me though that's still hanging onto her and doesn't want to let go, ever. I suppose this is what we should talk about in December...


Anyway I know I will be doing this work for the rest of my life one way or another, that's a certainty at least, but I'm just not needing or wanting the formal weekly thing anymore, and I suppose I can understand why a t would want someone to schedule that way because it just makes scheduling easier to put the same person in the same slot every week rather than have to try to work around it when someone wants to come only monthly. I dunno. Much to think about.