Hey, Artie, I just wanted to say something, please excuse my forwardness and please ignore if not helpful... Maybe it's time for you to work on leaving your T? What that means for you. The hurt it will bring, the struggle to let go, what the future holds etc. I guess I'm only saying that because I see how powerful the relationship has been for you, like it was for me and my T, and because I never got the chance to 'end' properly. I wish I had had that chance. I wish with all my heart we could have talked through these feelings. Could have discussed possibilities. Could have felt the anger and hurt and yet been able to see she didn't want to cause it. Not sure if it makes any sense... But just felt I wanted to say that. Sorry for 'butting in'.