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Originally Posted by comrademoomoo
How do you know you want to stop, Artie? What is the difference between "I want to stop" and "I could stop" and "I should stop"? I ask because I wonder how I will know when I genuinely want to stop compared to my pulling back due to avoidance or my thoughts about what ideal me (she doesn't even exist) would do.
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This is a good point. I know for me, in talking of reducing sessions, I tend to be very much like, "I *should* reduce them." Not "I want to" or "I'm ready to do so."