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Old Nov 14, 2021, 01:02 AM
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When I got with my hubby he was self conscious about his height. In my work boots I'm about 5'8 maybe a bit over and bare foot I'm about 5'7, hubby is a little over 5'4. I can honestly say I've never cared about someone's height. It has nothing to do with what matters and what matters is what type of person they are.

After 13 years of marriage he has relaxed and doesn't bring it up anymore. I know it's easier said than done but focus on what matters and that's how you treat your partner. If you have the misfortune to run into someone that makes it an issue just know that it is their issue not yours. For me a person judging someone/trying to make them feel bad for something as arbitrary as height would be a red flag that I don't need this person in my life. (((huggs)))
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