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Default Nov 14, 2021 at 07:09 PM
 
I am so sorry black-roses you are going through this. It sounds extremely scary. As others have said, please report to the police, but don't expect to anything to come out of it. Police don't take stalkers too seriously. Please safeguard your home - solid locks on doors and windows, iron grills so they cannot enter. Keep something to safeguard yourself - pepper spray or something. It's often said that stalkers like your attention. Even negative attention like showing your frustration, eye rolling, yelling, nervousness - they apparently love to see your reaction. So try your best to avoid reacting at all. Whenever you out, go out with sunglasses so they can't see what your seeing, your expressions. Just avoid looking at them. I've read that they eventually get bored and move on to their next target. So hope your stalker moves on too. But please always maintain distance. Hopefully he'll move on and leave you alone.

Above all, we're here for you. All the best.
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