In an idillic world, at least 33 times, to say a number but in real world and the experience you get through years I don’t have a number, I only have my “ health thermometer” to tell me that once I can’t take it more because my own health is at risk ( physical or mental) I don’t have any problem to get rid of that person.
And I respect the people who also do the same with me. I’m not an easy going person. I mean, sometimes I can be a big great pain right in the @ss.
I’m fine with keeping healthy boundaries, to be honest. It makes you feel better and proud.

What do you think about it all?