Is he your partner or your jailer? Controlling, abusive, aggressive, domineering.. IF this is how he treats you when you are not even married, I can’t even imagine how much his behaviour could escalate e.g. domestic abuse, physical abuse.

Major red flags here.

Why would you even want to be in a relationship with a man like that? And what if you have kids, would he brutalise them because he can do anything he wants, knowing you will stay.

Being in love with someone does not give them permission to abuse you and/or any future children. Staying with him, letting him get away with any- and everything, is only further enabling him to continue such manipulation and abuse.