kvinneakt...

Sigh. We were married nearly 25 years, we have children together, we own property together. That's the practical reason.

The not so practical reason is he does reach out at times... maybe I'm a door mat and maybe I'm setting myself up for more of this... but, c'mon. The guy is a human being too. While I may need help myself because of my depression... I'm seeing someone who desparately needs help too. He's deep in denial over a few things... and I think the way he lashes out and then avoids attorneys and the legal process is an indicator. He AVOIDED the process server when I filed for divorce for FOUR days!!!

I may not have all the details here, but he's very avoidant. Does not like to deal with problems he cannot have full control of. It's a maddening situation, and it's driving me to the brink.