There's only me and sibling now. we used to have a large family of in laws but after they divorced I never saw any of them again.


For us the magic of xmas was lost after our mum died in our teens as it was quite near xmas too and our dad couldn't cope told relatives not to bother with presents or anything.


I dreaded it every year for many years, was just getting comfortable with the inlaws who were big on xmas and presents when sibling and partner divorced and it was just me and him again.


It went quiet and it was just an afternoon at the pub,he'd book us a table and we'd buy each other something we needed or wanted but I think neither of us had our hearts in it.


Though I got more enjoyment watching my dogs unwrap their toys and turkey flavoured treats!!

Sibling has a new partner these last few years whose into spending large amounts on her daughter for xmas. Did feel momentarily envious as I've had never had anyone spend that kind of money on me (our parents never had that kind of money when we did get presents).


But then I'm not interested in designer clothes, perfumes etc. Been autistic I'm happy with a new game or colouring books and my favouite drink. My dog gets more presents than me!


But yes it is really over commercialised now and for some more about how much they got rather than just getting time to spend with family.