My question is has he had a real live fling with a flesh and blood person. The reason I ask is because all that other stuff is fantasy. IMO he needs to grow up. I wouldn't waste my time on an online words on a screen affair. I wouldn't worry if my wife was chatting with a man online. I would however put a quick end to any male with sexual intentions
trying to get physical.

I think a lot of this computer e-mail can be dangerous if you let it. I also thing a lot of folks let their imagination run wild.
If he or she isn't being physical it is only words on a screen to me. I guess I'll be told how wrong I am.
Can someone tell me what is wrong with having a friend of the opposite sex? Can someone explain how words on a screen from someone that you are unlikely to ever meet can hurt so bad as to cause a divorce. Now, please don't get all religious on me because I have a degree in Theology, I kkow what the Bible says.

Eric