I think for myself as a severely autistic woman who never managed to reach the stage of being able to cope with a physical partner or kids, it makes me feel more different when other 'neurotypical' women my age think I'm odd cos I never mention a partner or kids. I also have a 'young mind' and interests (video games and colouring).
On the other hand when I've more rarely found someone else more like me it is a comfort I'm not the only one!