It is highly inappropriate and unhealthy and potentially scary for other people.

It’s also somewhat scary that you refuse to acknowledge that you are wrong in your behavior.

Now I know a lot of your behaviors are common with some people diagnosed with ASD. In addition you mentioned other diagnosis. I get it that it’s not that simple:”just stop doing it”. Not that easy.

But you do need to try harder and monitor your own behaviors and seek help amd listen to others.. If you cannot, then you have to seek supported employment with a job coach supervising you on the job. Or you should not work at all. But you can’t go on in this manner