This is where I feel you are putting us on at times - whether you are on the spectrum or not, you have been told many times you tend to stalk people. You have had legal action taken against you for that type of behavior in another work situation and you still persist in telling us that you just don't understand why people react to you the way they do.

Plainly put, you behave in an abusive way toward people when you don't have the complete attention of your target, and you act like it's the responsibility of others to placate and comfort you.

You should not be working at all because you are uninterested in changing your behavior.