Ruby, the reason people are scared is that they feel threatened. There are frequent stories in the news about people who behave the way you do at work coming in and shooting up the place. Sorry for being very blunt, but you asked. The last time someone acted the way you do toward me at work I went to my boss and told him I refused to be alone with that person ever again. Had the behavior continued I would have filed a grievance with HR.
Something for you to consider.... you don't know the life circumstances of your coworkers. One could be in an abusive relationship or could have an abuse history or might have PTSD. How do you thin they would feel having a coworker yell and curse at them? It would be terrifying. I speak from personal experience. I was working to get myself out of an abusive relationship, struggled to control PTSD symptoms. One night someone started screaming at me. I ended up rolled in fetal position on the seat of my truck, crying, shaking, in no condition to drive home. THAT'S one reason people might find your behavior scary.
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