I don't post much but I read alot and your posts are such an inspiration to me.

I have been in therapy for years. My T has been wonderful. However, I stopped seeing him for a few months because of something stupid that he said which was very hurtful to me.

He sent me a letter saying that I misunderstood. What he said was very clear and I think that I understood exactly what he said. He is blaming the problem on me and I am angry about it. Sometimes, I think it is best that I best move on if he cannot understand my point of view and take some ownership in the problem. Other times, I think that I need to see him for a few more sessions to see if we can get on the same page.

I just hate it when problems come up in therapy and the T implies that it is solely our problem because we are in treatment. I just feel like screaming that it is not my problem, but his. Ugh!