awww...WMD...that's wicked advice...i've never been in court before.

i'm gonna print that out and drill it into my head, maybe get my friend who's mom is a barrister to practice with me a bit...

and hope they allow me to wear my shades coz being agoraphobic...it may sound silly but i can't go out without shades.

and...if you don't mind...it might help in court to keep in mind that it was your post this advice came from...only coz i like your attitude...if i can say and no offense intended but a compliment...i think you're kick-*** and don't take no crap but you're sweet too...lol

thank you very much for your support...it really does help.