Downright frightening and frustrating that you can't recognize your behavior and accept responsibility for your own actions. If any one of us on this forum or any of your other coworkers did even just one of the things you mentioned you did, such as lashing out, screaming, cursing, stalking, and among other things, we would rightfully so be walked out the door without a seconds hesitation and that could very well be the least of our problems. Legal action could follow which would tarnish someone's reputation permanently. You don't realize just how lucky you've been so far, one day you're going to scare the wrong person and they will seek full legal action against you.

You really need to realize what you're doing is wrong and take all of our suggestions as a warning that in the future people will not be so nice towards you. In court, stating that you have ASD will not hold up. They don't give a crap about what problems you have, if anything they would use it against you. That's why you need to start changing your behavior now before it's too late. I'm sure you would actually hate it if someone was as obsessed about you as you are to them and rightfully so too.