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Originally Posted by BigBubba
I didn't mean to offend anyone. What I meant is that sometimes I feel like I'm talking to my male buddy rather than an young woman while talking to her. Lots of swearing, urban language, and very very bold statements. Its not wrong, but its also very... masculine.
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Got you! I see now what you mean.
As about her calling in the middle of the night. Is her husband not home? Sitting right there? Sleeping? Working nights? Just a weird time to call people. And do you know him? Or she doing it in secret?
My husband has an old friend since nursing school. If they do talk, it’s pretty long. Typically I am sitting right there. Its usually sharing work experience. Then her husband just died so that’s another topic. Then about kids. She helped me with advice when my mom was ill because her nursing specialty is different than my husband’s. Having said that, they talk like every few months the most. Not regular talks!
My husband works nights so middle of the night isn’t unusual time for him. I’d not be bothered if it was occasional BUT frequency and length of conversations is bothersome.