Why wouldnt you have her work for you again? Because shes a giiiiiiirl?! I may be reading between the lines wrongly here, but is it that you are mad at her for NOT being available personally? "Being man-like" - yeah, she wants to earn a living! Even married women are allowed to want that. You might get the answer you REALLY want if you post in Men Only.

Tone of post: Roseanne Rosannah-Dannah. Pokey but not mean. Just cranky!