we have an unhealthy dynamic- I’m not sure if it’s an unhealthy dynamic entirely, or just unhealthy when there is a disagreement. The basis of our disagreements are often absolutely ridiculous, too.

he acts out to anyone because he lacks interpersonal skills to do better. And I guess because he has inner turmoil.

Ive talked to him about this before—how his communication is not positive and won’t help him. Sometimes he might agree, or more often he’ll say he doesn’t have capacity for other peoples sensitivity. he will blame the other person. He might later blame himself but it doesn’t help anything.