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Nov 28, 2021, 03:26 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
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Hang on @BigBubba
You dont know what @nonightowl has been through. What if she has male associated trauma? What if she was abused in a previous relationship? You are assuming she was treating him with disgust- which is an assumpti0n. How is her declining an invitation treating him like he is nothing? She was interested in friendship. Signals got crossed. He obvi0usly had romantic interest in her and she didnt feel the same. Bravo to @nonightowl for maintaining your boundaries. I'd bet that took guts and its probably something you worked on for awhile.
And @BigBubba I hate to bring this up but it is assumptions like that-by men- that perpetuate the idea that something must be wrong with a woman to turn down a man's advances or attempts at romance. That there is something wrong with her for being confident in saying no and setting boundaries. You used the word disgust and whether or not that is true its not for you to say and she isnt required to explain herself. The man ghosted her and no one has anything to say about that?
How is saying no, no thank you, no thanks or even hell no treating him like he is nothing?
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Originally Posted by BigBubba
Brutal. I mean you're talking about dance (pretty innocent) and still I can sense the disgust. Is it true what they say that women treat guys they're not interested like they're nothing? Sorry for offtopic, but its related, and I'm curious.
Also, I think it could be the reason. Maybe somehow he sensed your disgust and checked out for his own good?
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