Okay, my bad. Still...

Declining in itself is fine. You can reject whoever you want. Its okay, BUT saying "If he tried to touch me (in dance), I'd break his fingers" seemed kinda like disgust. Imagine if I told you that if you try to shake my hand I'll smash you in the face. Shaking hand is just as innocent as dancing. I just don't get it, but again - maybe its an aftermath of some trauma of the poster we're not aware of.