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Default Nov 28, 2021 at 04:12 PM
 
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Originally Posted by BigBubba View Post
Okay, my bad. Still...

Declining in itself is fine. You can reject whoever you want. Its okay, BUT saying "If he tried to touch me (in dance), I'd break his fingers" seemed kinda like disgust. Imagine if I told you that if you try to shake my hand I'll smash you in the face. Shaking hand is just as innocent as dancing. I just don't get it, but again - maybe its an aftermath of some trauma of the poster we're not aware of.
Made me think that if a guy posted that a woman asked him out and he doesn’t like her that way and doesn’t want to be touched so “if she touched him, he’d punch her in the face or break her fingers”, people would be outraged.

But it’s ok to say that a man deserves his fingers broken and it’s not even about touching anyone against their will. Just a casual invite to a ball room dancing. Why is it ok for a woman to threaten a man with violence, even hypothetical.

The whole thing rubs me the wrong way.
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