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Nov 29, 2021, 03:05 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
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Hey @SmilesGirl there is so much to unpack in your most recent post about thanksgiving. Since its a ldr thing, report his behavior to the police- his in his town if need be. Get a notebook and start backtracking an write everything you can remember about his behavior. Write down the illegal stuff like threatening you with blackmail, illegally attempting to access your bank accounts and credit cards. Changing your travel details. So what if he demands for you to pay him back?? Tell him to F off and take you to court. He wont win and its not worth his time. If it gets bad enough where you need an immediate "threat" or way to send him a warning... tell him you are done. Block him everywhere. Every internet thing, phone, etc. Block him from your parents. Find someone tech savy and make sure there is no spyware on your phone or laptop. Spyware is surprisingly cheap and not illegal. Most of them are able t GPS you, see all your messages, emails, keystrokes etc.
Report him to HR at your place...and report him to the appropriate dept at his job. At least if your work knows he is abusive and unstable they wont hold it against you as if you are tolerating it. Reporting him to his employer AND the medical board is a must. Right now he has no consequences and that would be one. You need a new phone number and a ring camera for outside your place and a smart cam inside. (a company called wyze makes them super cheap because ring is expensive).
You need to treat him like a sociopath ex. Assume he wants to kill you and live accordingly.
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