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With all of my heart, I urge you to follow through on never being with him again.

Your life could well depend on it.

In addition to a lawyer, you might find knowledgeable help and support from a feminist/women's resource center.

A lawyer will give you legal advice. But remember that blackmail is a crime. Letters from an angry ex-partner look un-credible. His career may on the line if his anger and the way he treats you becomes public, especially his efforts at blackmail.

Every harsh word he ever said to you, every single one, was abusive and untrue.



Have you been getting useful assistance from BetterHelp, which you mentioned previously? I think a good therapist could be really valuable for you right now.

Be sure to show/send your posts on this site to your lawyer. As well as any other writing/journaling, especially contemporaneous, that you may have.

I'm very sorry that you have to deal with this immense burden and pain while also carrying on as a medical student. Surround yourself with those who support you unconditionally, and never go near him again.