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Originally Posted by Associate
There is a rationale for such alimony with its main purpose being keeping the same lifestyle for a child as he/she had before. So, basically if 100$ per month is enough per child to cover his food, clothes etc. but a husband was earning a lot to provide a better lifestyle, then the same lifestyle must be maintained as closely as possible.
Based on what you say, she will blame only you in this situation. She does not think about how a life will be after divorce, these type of people rarely do.
The good thing is that you children are grown up and they can come and visit you whenever they want. For me, situation is a bit different since my son is just 3 years old and I need to communicate with my ex-wife to see him.
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Gotcha.
You are correct. She blames me for everything. I have often thought who will she blame once this is over and I am gone? The only constant in her equation/life will be herself. I love her dearly still and this is sad to witness her change.
I cannot imagine having younger children. My son will be coming home from University for the Holiday and already told her that he is sleeping at my house in his room. She doesnt have room for him. But he will visit her whenever he can. I think he holds her accountable to breaking the family apart.