You need to put this in your lawyers hands. You cannot bribe him into treating you well, which is what your proposed agreement sounds like. You are still engaging with him - that is not good.

His threats to you are entirely bogus. Its like putting revenge pictures of you on the internet - its ridiculous. Why dont you see that?

The more you engage with him, the more questionable your own sanity and judgment appear. You are trying to bend facts to suit your imagination. That is not a good look for a doctor. Get out.

Let your lawyer handle it. Cease and desist - you and him.

Eta - you need your own letter detailing what actions YOU should stop doing.