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Originally Posted by DevastatedinAZ
Gotcha.
You are correct. She blames me for everything. I have often thought who will she blame once this is over and I am gone? The only constant in her equation/life will be herself. I love her dearly still and this is sad to witness her change.
I cannot imagine having younger children. My son will be coming home from University for the Holiday and already told her that he is sleeping at my house in his room. She doesnt have room for him. But he will visit her whenever he can. I think he holds her accountable to breaking the family apart.
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Jeff,
I read that you have already talked to/consulted a lawyer (are a lawyer?)A separation agreement during this time though costly might help define absolute boundaries between the kids, you and your wife so that you dont get blindsided with legals/kids staying at your place/ her place. It could help the kids deal with it all in a way too because you will all be in agreement together on co-parenting. It might help your kids see that you are both handling everything properly that way too?
My friend who has been divorced for many years told me that one day, it wont matter whos fault it was.
Hope this helps
Tessa