Hi Tessa, I filed for divorce after 4 years, for what I can't even call a happy marriage. Still I find it hard sometimes, but slowly I am getting used to a new lifestyle.

There are many good people on this forum who support each other and share their tips on how to recover. I know it is easier said than done, but it is important to get busy with different activities. Hanging out with friends, doing sport, finding hobbies and in general doing whatever would make you feel positive and not think about your divorce.

If you need someone to talk I am sure many users on this forum, including myself, would gladly talk to you and give you support, as well as share some tips on how to get back to normal life.