There are people in this world who would kill me if they got a chance, because of the gender I identify as. But I dont ever come across any of these people so I dont think about some random crazy people wanting me dead. I know that my own family accepts me and thats enough.

What bothers me is when people make a point and go out of their way to show or say what they think about me. If they do stuff and I'm not aware of it I dont care. But when people are assholes to my face I care. But I havent really had an issue with that in 4 years when a coworker was giving me trouble.