It feels like I keep having ruptures or misunderstandings with L. I'm wondering if it's normal. She says they are "very common in therapy when there is a history of abandonment and interpersonal pain and trauma". She says that's where a lot of the healing takes place. It's just exhausting for me to keep going through it. However, we do always work things out in the end, and we are getting through them better and better each time. She usually isn't defense, just supportive, understanding, and empathetic. I know I've had ruptures with other Ts. Ex-T was almost weekly. I even remember a few with T. Maybe it seems like a lot because I've been with her for awhile now?

Anyways, I was just wondering if it's normal and other's experiences.