How many sessions have you had? If you just started, I'd give it at least 3 months to decide if this therapist is a good fit. As I recall you have a lot of anxiety about your relationship (at least 1 post mentioned checking devices for evidence without being given reason to), but I also have seen posts where you are clearly describing emotionally abusive behavior toward you from him.

I don't know how couples counseling can be successful with an emotionally abusive person. If you are stuck financially, you may end up having to create a life with your family outside of his involvement and disengage from dealing with him on anything but a necessary level.

To me from reading your past posts, it sounds like the relationship is too bad to fix but that's just me.