Mountaindewd, i agree with roxanne, there are NOT t's who monitor other t's facebooks.

I had a similar situation happen, only it was a wrong-way email. I eventually decided a) i had already decided this would be my last t (it wasnt that long ago) b) we had already done a lot of good work together c) my t's business was their own business - even if it wasnt the kind of business i chose to be involved in. Like they say, there are two kinds of people in the world.

Thats my best advice - make a decision based on whats important to you.