My T thinks ruptures are an important part of therapy and many times they are even started or created unconsciously because we need to work something through. Sometimes I think it is just two people trying to navigate an intimate and unusual relationship that is often fraught with emotions, old wounds and triggers. I know we learn and grow from everything but ruptures with a T are so incredibly difficult when you are in them that it can be hard to see any way out . I recently had a rupture with my T that is not yet fixed and it is incredibly painful. I am not sure if we can work through it this time.