Recently, during some talk about fears and exposition, my T talked about being scared of snakes and how he managed his fear so he'd not flick to a different channel as soon as he'd see a snake or whatever. Now, a few months prior to that, I had been talking about wanting to maybe get a snake as soon as I had moved. I think they are kind of cute, and due to my partner not wanting anything that roams freely around the house and snakes actually being pretty content with a not so large territory.

At the time, he didn't say anything regarding being scared of snakes. If anything, he expressed some interest in how they are as a pet, I think we even talked about the logistics of feeding mice to them... I only realized he probably would hate the idea of having his own pet snake when talking about something completely different.

Wondering how that has been for other people.